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JHE Solves Your Relationship Problems: 'I still like him; I don't think he is consciously trying to be mean'

himglishandfemalese:

Dear Jean,

Some months ago my boyfriend left me for a friend of mine. We were living together but I have been abroad this past year (dealing with my father’s estate). Since we broke up, he has stayed living in the house I own, as I am still abroad. I recently learnt, however, that his father (who I dislike intensely) and his new girlfriend have recently moved into my house as well. I know I am probably being exploited but I do still have feelings for him. And I am hopeful that maybe we can get back together. My friends say I am insane and that I should kick him out immediately. But I don’t know what I want to do. I still like him, I don’t think he is consciously trying to be mean. I’m also worried about what will happen to the dogs we co-own if I kick him out. One of them I co-own with him and his new girlfriend owns another.

What do you think?

- Hortensia